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This article really spoke to me. I suspect I've always had a tendency to flatten people into archetypes, which is maybe a reason I was drawn to identity politics in the first place—because I wanted to free myself of thinking of people as "the Asian guy" or "the one in the wheelchair". But I think the identity politics environment ultimately exacerbated that tendency without me realizing.

It's with that context that you can choose how to take my differing perspective on the "Hispanics hate 'Latinx'" thing. I looked for early usages of the term (~2014-2016), and it seems to me like there were plenty of native Spanish speakers using it as a self-descriptor. It was used to replace terms like 'Latino/a' in order to include *nonbinary people,* specifically. And of course that's only worth a bit of awkwardness to a very small minority of people (compare "xe/xir" pronouns). Spanish speakers, like English speakers, comprise a great range of people— from those who are going to automatically hate a neologism that smacks of gender inclusivity even if it weren't linguistically awkward (English doesn't usually do initial 'x'), to the small fraction of people who use nonbinary neologisms themselves.

And on a personal note, I'm nonbinary, and this thing where we're forgotten about in the very conversations where we're asking not to be forgotten about ... it's just a constant part of life. And I think that's part of what makes my relationship to "wokeness" so painful and fraught. I want the voice of nonbinary people to be louder. Outside of progressive spaces, and often within them as well, asking, "hey, could you phrase that in a way that doesn't explicitly exclude people like me?" is met with ridicule. I want the space, the possibility that I might be seen and heard. I want the possibility of love.

... Without feeling like my capacity to see people outside of Categories is being worn down. So let me reiterate that I deeply appreciate this essay. It makes me hopeful for the future, but more than that, it's helping me find the seeing and loving to nurture within myself. Thank you for listening to my perspective, and thank you for this essay.

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